Not too long ago I went through some struggles of comparison and unfulfillment. As I scrolled through social media I would catch myself thinking, "why cant I have this", or "why cant I be in these circumstances". I was left feeling empty, wanting more and more of what I didn't have. God reminded me quickly that I truly lack nothing. I have everything I could possibly need and more. And if I cant worship Him and be thankful in all circumstances, specifically the ones that I'm in now, why would He ever give me better or different circumstances. We love to make life all about us: what we need, what we have, what we want. But the older I get the more I realize that life is not about us, its not about materialistic things, or what we accomplish, where we go, what we do: Life should simply be about Him. Everything that we have, everything that we dont have, none of it is cause of us. It's all given to us by God to bring Him glory. If we can find joy in what's in front of us then we will never lack anything, if we can learn to find Joy in just the fact that we have Him, what else do we need. Today at my womens bible study a lady shared her amazing testimony that touched me so deeply, I couldn't wait to share it because it'll hopefully touch you too. These days people like to look at your accomplishments and successes and decide how great your life is going. Before knowing God, this lady was truly successful. Working as a nurse practitioner she said she was so financially successful, her job and money were everything to her. She confessed that she had about a few millions of savings at her reach at all times. Then one day, God touched her heart through a song and she decided to follow Him. Having God in her heart, and the more she got to know Him, He revealed His will for her life loud and clear. God wanted her to give up her financial stability and give everything she had away. So just as the disciples did she left everything and followed Christ. Up to the point where she only had $8 dollars in her pocket. Later she got sick to the point of near death. Nothing was holding her back anymore, she had nothing, she gave it all up. She was ready to go, but God showed her that her story was not over. She realized that even though she felt as if she had nothing, God showed her that she has everything. She has Him. He stripped her of everything to show her that she didn't need money or success to be happy. Her only true joy was in Him. Today she lives a simple life, in a neighborhood that's known to be poor. But she says that every day she wakes up and she knows she lacks nothing because she has everything she needs. Through her testimony I was truly humbled. Why are we always searching for more and better? Everything will fade away but God will never leave us. What's the point of being wealthy and successful and popular, whats the point of comparing what we look like or what clothes we wear with others who may have better. Everything we have is a gift from God. I pray that God can humble me and teach me to be grateful for what I have and where I am in life. I pray that I can make my life about Him and not me. Job got stripped of everything and he worshiped God, the apostles left everything they had to follow Jesus, Zaccheus gave up all his belongings to follow Jesus as well, and so did this lady that came across my life. Why shouldn't I? I wish to have the faith to put God first in each day, I wish to know him more and more, so I could truly feel fulfilled and know that I lack NOTHING and that I truly have EVERYTHING.
4/17/2018
3/30/2018
GOOD Friday.
Today was good Friday, and for a moment it didn't feel so..Good. Our pastor always does such a good job of making you feel like you're part of the events that he reads from the bible. You feel like you're there, watching. He described what happened to Jesus in such detail, that I never felt such sadness before when hearing about it. Our pastor described that the pain Jesus went through was excruciating. That the word didn't even exist before, and that It was made up to describe that pain one feels during crucifixion. He also said that Jesus was unrecognizable. That others who have gotten crucified, died before even getting to the cross. Jesus was torn to pieces, brutally beaten, tortured, made fun of, and abandoned. We sometimes forget how real these events were, and today I was reminded of that.. these weren't pg events, they weren't in any way appealing. But Christianity isn't always appealing either. Today, in a way I felt like I lost a close friend. In every moment of happiness, I had a reminder in the back of my mind of how He suffered for me. I cant imagine how people felt actually having to physically been there. And the sad part is, so many people partook in, and supported such events. What's even more sad is that every time we sin, we partake in them too.
Thankfully, the story doesn't end there.
We all know that without rain, theres no flowers...and without the story of the crucifixion theres no ressurection. It's important to think of Christs suffering, as unappealing and unpleasant as it is. Because without it we wouldn't truly appreciate the beauty and joy of His ressurection. I'm so undescribably thankful that Jesus sacrificed Himself for me, He didn't HAVE to do it, and I don't deserve it in any way. But He died, so that I may live. I'm so thankful for the joy that having faith in Him brings. No one else in history went through such pain to sacrifice themselves for someone that wasn't even walking the earth yet, for sinners like you and me. I hope you can realize that today. As sad as I got when thinking about these events, I also had extreme joy. Because Jesus didn't just die, three days later He rose from the dead and came to life. The day christ died for me, I didn't really lose a friend.. instead when He rose again I gained one. One who is loving, understanding, almighty, a miracle worker, and MY savior. I hope He is yours too.
3/29/2018
To lay down your life for HIm
I was reading the story about the Passover supper. A lot of us have heard this passage many times, but something, in particular, stood out to me today. It's something we hear very often, but don't always put into practice.
At the end of John chapter 13, during the dinner, Jesus reveals who will deny Him and that He is going away, somewhere where no one could follow(v36)... and one of His disciples, Peter, being so dedicated to his Teacher responded, "Lord, why can I not follow You now? I will lay down my life for your sake." And "Jesus answered him, "WILL you lay down your life for My sake?"
Later we read that Peter denied Jesus three times...
A lot of us might get frustrated from this story, but aren't we all just like Peter? Don't we deny Christ on the daily? To lay down your life for Christ doesn't always mean to physically die. To lay down your life, is to constantly, unreservedly, put your life aside. To die to your desires, your needs, and wants. In all that we do, Christ must be first. To lay down your life for Him means to put YOURSELF last. This society teaches us that we must put ourselves first, that we should focus on whats best for US. But Christ tells us the opposite. Christ put Himself last, He didn't have to. He lowered Himself to wash His disciple's feet, and then later He died for them, for us. With this example, he told us, "If I then, your Lord and Teacher have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another's feet."(v14) So how do we lay down our life for Him? By doing just as He did, laying down our life for others. Everyone around you; the people you don't like, the people you don't know, now must come before you. You must serve them, and love them, and be willing to put your life aside for them. Christ died for His haters, for those who didn't know Him or love Him. Christ died for you and me. Are you willing to do the same? I know that I struggle with this. Sometimes it takes extra effort or stepping out of my comfort zone to serve others. Sometimes my ego gets in the way. But I'm so thankful for Christ, and that He died for me, at no price. The best way to thank Him, and to repay Him is by serving others, at no price. So during this week of Easter, let's try extra hard to put ourselves last and put others first, just like He did for us. It doesn't necessarily mean washing someone's feet, cause people don't do that nowadays. But It could take one small action; like a helpful hand, or a friendly smile, a conversation, listening to what someone has to say. It could mean getting off the couch to get your husband that soda he wants. It could mean inviting someone to church OR by literally saving someone's life and sharing what Christ did for them. Let's not deny Him, by denying our love to everyone that comes our way. WILL you lay down your life for Him, by laying down your life for others?
At the end of John chapter 13, during the dinner, Jesus reveals who will deny Him and that He is going away, somewhere where no one could follow(v36)... and one of His disciples, Peter, being so dedicated to his Teacher responded, "Lord, why can I not follow You now? I will lay down my life for your sake." And "Jesus answered him, "WILL you lay down your life for My sake?"
Later we read that Peter denied Jesus three times...
A lot of us might get frustrated from this story, but aren't we all just like Peter? Don't we deny Christ on the daily? To lay down your life for Christ doesn't always mean to physically die. To lay down your life, is to constantly, unreservedly, put your life aside. To die to your desires, your needs, and wants. In all that we do, Christ must be first. To lay down your life for Him means to put YOURSELF last. This society teaches us that we must put ourselves first, that we should focus on whats best for US. But Christ tells us the opposite. Christ put Himself last, He didn't have to. He lowered Himself to wash His disciple's feet, and then later He died for them, for us. With this example, he told us, "If I then, your Lord and Teacher have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another's feet."(v14) So how do we lay down our life for Him? By doing just as He did, laying down our life for others. Everyone around you; the people you don't like, the people you don't know, now must come before you. You must serve them, and love them, and be willing to put your life aside for them. Christ died for His haters, for those who didn't know Him or love Him. Christ died for you and me. Are you willing to do the same? I know that I struggle with this. Sometimes it takes extra effort or stepping out of my comfort zone to serve others. Sometimes my ego gets in the way. But I'm so thankful for Christ, and that He died for me, at no price. The best way to thank Him, and to repay Him is by serving others, at no price. So during this week of Easter, let's try extra hard to put ourselves last and put others first, just like He did for us. It doesn't necessarily mean washing someone's feet, cause people don't do that nowadays. But It could take one small action; like a helpful hand, or a friendly smile, a conversation, listening to what someone has to say. It could mean getting off the couch to get your husband that soda he wants. It could mean inviting someone to church OR by literally saving someone's life and sharing what Christ did for them. Let's not deny Him, by denying our love to everyone that comes our way. WILL you lay down your life for Him, by laying down your life for others?
5/11/2017
Lets all just slow down a little
Hey hey it's me again.
Got some more food for thought for everyone, as it's around dinner time.
I've been thinking a lot about how fast life flies by. And a lot of people talk about 'enjoying every moment' and all that.
But after coming back from Mexico I really got inspired to try a little harder, and really, truly, be in the moment.
My one week vacation flew by, and as much as I did love it, it ended with a few regrets. (No, nothing crazy happened) But I did regret not waking up a little earlier to watch the sunrise, not listening to the waves crash more often, not slowing down and soaking it all in. We were there for such a limited time that I wished I could stretch out every moment, relive it, and truly experience it.
So I thought a lot about what enjoying every moment truly means and I'm chellenging myself to get there.
What I need to learn to do is slow down. Notice the little things: the breeze running through my hair, the sound of birds in the morning, people's emotions. I need to take deeper breaths more often. Think deeper about simple things. Like being thankful that I woke up that morning, or enjoying every bite of good food.
I need to notice things: a smile or frown on someone's face, what brings someone joy. I need to truly listen when people have something to say.
I need to keep my phone in my purse more often, only take it out when I'm at home.
Quiet my mind, think before I speak, and most of all always listen in case God might be speaking.
Slowing down and enjoying the moment is so hard to do in a world that pressures you to go, and do all the time. In a world that makes you scroll, and like things that aren't even physically in front of us. In a world where instead of saying hi to someone we would rather hide behind a screen and pretend we aren't there.
So I challenge myself, and those who like a challenge...
Let's try to take pictures but post them later, maybe even not post them at all. Do things, and not even share them. Enjoy things, without having the need to tell someone we enjoy them.
Living in the moment, it's a challenge, a thing you need to constantly remind yourself to do now adays. How sad.
But as long as I keep trying, keep reminding myself to slow down. I think I'll get there. To the day, where I'll see a pretty tree or order an amazing meal and not even be tempted to post it on my story.
And I know my husband's gonna laugh at this, cause Its gonna take a lot of time to get there.
2/08/2017
It's not worth drowning for
Imagine you're a fisherman. You're sitting in a wooden boat with a few other men doing your job. Now the job comes with lots of risk. For example, there could be little or no fish supply, the equipment could break, the boat could have damage, you could eat too much for lunch and be too heavy for the boat, or a storm could come up out of nowhere, slimming your chances of safely getting back to shore.
And so far, today started just like any other normal day. You go out on your boat, to the middle of the sea, to catch some fish. But life is full of surprises, and changes in weather, and your day turned out to be not so typical after all. Now storms happen, and if you've been a fisherman for a while you probably faced a few. But today, the storm was like no other. Out of nowhere the sky got darker, the wind got stronger, the waves got bigger, and the rain got faster. And you usually don't get scared easily, but today, you were, and so were your buddies. For this was a storm that you might not get out of. Now while you're panicking and trying to figure out how to live through this, things escalate even more. As if you're not scared already, you see a figure in the distance, walking towards you on the water. Your heart drops.. is it a monster? a ghost? Are you hallucinating? Everyone knows walking on water is impossible, so you prepare for the worst. And as you're ready to meet your end, you're praying your last prayers, you stop, and suddenly feel a rush of relief run over you. Because it isn't a monster, or ghost walking on the water, its your most trusted, beloved, leader, and friend walking toward you. A man who was capable of miracles. And in that moment, you forget about the rain, you forget about the engulfing waves, you forget that its impossible to walk on water. Your focus is on HIM. And with nothing stopping you, you step out of the boat and walk towards Him. "Wow, i'm walking on water, doing the impossible," you think. But with the thought you start to question yourself.. "how am I not drowning? How am I actually doing this?" And it only takes a moment, one negative thought to turn everything around, and you lose sight of your friend. You look to the sides, and its chaos. Waves are crashing, rain is falling, and you're drowning. Once again your grip on life slips away from you, and you prepare to lose it. But as you take one last breath of air, ready to go under.. your loving, perfect, friend reaches His hand your way and pulls you out of the storm. And as He pulls you out, everything around you turns still, and calm, and youre alive, and breathing.The sun comes out, and the day goes on.
Sound familiar? Not only have we heard of the story of Peter and Jesus walking on the water many times as children, and maybe even read it ourselves a few times, we've also all experienced it too. Sometimes in this chaotic and crazy life, that often makes us feel like we're drowning, we get a ray of bravery. And we start to walk on water. But most of the time that little spark of bravery and faith gets engulfed by doubts, fears, and lies and we lose sight of what's in front of us. Some of us may still be drowning. But our story doesn't have to end there. We HAVE that friend reaching out His hand to us, all we have to do is grab it. So please, take that hand, and i'll take it too, and when we do...the storm will pass, and everything will be still, the sun will come out, and life will go on. And if you ever lose sight, and start to drown again, you'll know that you don't have to end your story being submerged by the waves of this chaotic life, we always have His hand to grab onto, and that fact alone should get us all walking on water.
1/14/2017
New year, same old me, but better.
2016 was amazing. We did so much, accomplished a lot, saw a lot of beautiful places, tried new things, and were very blessed. But 2016 was a year of a mini rut for me. I was a bit lazy, a bit unmotivated, I lacked inspiration. But through all that there was a lot a growth, and a lot of desire to get out the the mindset I was in.
Im someone who loves fresh starts: the beginning of a year, the beginning of a week, month, day... I love the idea of clean slates, that feeling where the past doesn't matter because you can rewrite the future, try again. That's what 2017 has become for me, the rewriting of myself, trying again. I don't know how, or why but as soon as the new year rolled in I finally found the inspiration I needed to give myself the push I needed in the right direction. 2017 for me will be the year of exceeding, perseverance, fighting my lazy, trying new things, pushing myself and finding strength. Last year I lived with the concept of doing things when I felt like it, this year I will do things I usually wouldnt, when I least feel like it.
alongside that though, I don't want to make any plans, and i have no expectations. I want 2017 to surprise me. I commit to going with the flow, accepting every opportunity I get to make more opportunities. I commit to not stressing out about having a perfect year. I accept what will come my way with excitement, anticipation, and trust. For a while I lived with the stress of the future being so unknown. I have no Idea what i want to do with my life, I have no clue what career path to take, or if I even want to take any. I have no clue what my purpose is, and what Im meant to do in this life.
Feeling lost is a scary feeling, it makes you insecure, it makes you doubt, and compare, and it makes you feel irrelevant. But God is amazing, and whenever I fall into this fear of the future, He always reminds me to trust. I trusted Him with my past, and I have no reason to stop now. People always ask me why Im not in college getting a degree. I honestly have no idea what I want, what I would be good at, and what path I need to take. All i know is that if i trust, everything will fall into place and come together just how it should, just like every other event in my life did.
This year all I plan to accomplish really is to make myself into the best person I could be, the person who God created me to be. Not the lazy girl sitting on the sidelines watching life pass her by. I don't want to be mediocre, we aren't meant to be that. I want to exceed my own expectations, and push myself every day to do more. Learn more, love more, live more, try more. Of course there will be many many days where I will fail, where I will want to give up, but the only way to succeed is to keep trying and practicing. Failure will be my drive.
So that's pretty much the plan for the year, to have no plan. A blank page, a fresh start, no expectations. Just me getting to know myself, seeing how far I could push myself, and where that will get me. No pressure to impress anyone but me and the one who created me. No pressure to be like anyone but me. A stronger, cooler, better me.
Im someone who loves fresh starts: the beginning of a year, the beginning of a week, month, day... I love the idea of clean slates, that feeling where the past doesn't matter because you can rewrite the future, try again. That's what 2017 has become for me, the rewriting of myself, trying again. I don't know how, or why but as soon as the new year rolled in I finally found the inspiration I needed to give myself the push I needed in the right direction. 2017 for me will be the year of exceeding, perseverance, fighting my lazy, trying new things, pushing myself and finding strength. Last year I lived with the concept of doing things when I felt like it, this year I will do things I usually wouldnt, when I least feel like it.
alongside that though, I don't want to make any plans, and i have no expectations. I want 2017 to surprise me. I commit to going with the flow, accepting every opportunity I get to make more opportunities. I commit to not stressing out about having a perfect year. I accept what will come my way with excitement, anticipation, and trust. For a while I lived with the stress of the future being so unknown. I have no Idea what i want to do with my life, I have no clue what career path to take, or if I even want to take any. I have no clue what my purpose is, and what Im meant to do in this life.
Feeling lost is a scary feeling, it makes you insecure, it makes you doubt, and compare, and it makes you feel irrelevant. But God is amazing, and whenever I fall into this fear of the future, He always reminds me to trust. I trusted Him with my past, and I have no reason to stop now. People always ask me why Im not in college getting a degree. I honestly have no idea what I want, what I would be good at, and what path I need to take. All i know is that if i trust, everything will fall into place and come together just how it should, just like every other event in my life did.
This year all I plan to accomplish really is to make myself into the best person I could be, the person who God created me to be. Not the lazy girl sitting on the sidelines watching life pass her by. I don't want to be mediocre, we aren't meant to be that. I want to exceed my own expectations, and push myself every day to do more. Learn more, love more, live more, try more. Of course there will be many many days where I will fail, where I will want to give up, but the only way to succeed is to keep trying and practicing. Failure will be my drive.
So that's pretty much the plan for the year, to have no plan. A blank page, a fresh start, no expectations. Just me getting to know myself, seeing how far I could push myself, and where that will get me. No pressure to impress anyone but me and the one who created me. No pressure to be like anyone but me. A stronger, cooler, better me.
11/07/2016
Sometimes I pretend Im healthy
I've been struggling with my weight\self image every since I was a teen. I was always bigger than most girls and always struggled to lose weight. I used to try crazy cleanses that ruined my system, used to go on all these diets, but nothing ever worked because... um I love food. haha
Anyways.. I've come a long way as most of my friends know, most people that I've recently met can't even recognize me in my old pictures. It's been a long journey with ups and downs and I believe i'm still on that journey and always will be, because the goal isnt losing weight, the goal is an overall healthy lifestyle, which you guys have probably heard many many times.
Ive changed a lot of my eating and exercise habits, I've learned a ton, tried out a ton, and just want to share some of the small little things you can change throughout the day that can make a big difference over time.
First of all though I want to be discreet and hope you realize that every body is unique and different, and what worked for me might not work for everyone. Also, i'm not an expert so please do your research, just as I did.
I still haven't gotten to my desired weight or size but I definitely have had some crazy progress over the years.
Heres some things that I've learned and have worked for me.
+ The first and most important thing anyone could do is to listen to their body. If your body reacts to something negatively, stay away from that. If you see progress from something, stick to it.
+ Don't be scared to experiment, but do your research. Like I said some things work for people that might not work for others. See what works for you and stick to that. I've tried cutting out meat, then getting it back in my diet, and my body felt the same whether I ate meat or not. I've tried different cleanses, teas, workout programs, etc. and just stuck to what made me feel best and what I trusted to be healthy for me.
+ Take it one day at a time. Make small changes not drastic ones. Maybe try eating sweets only once a day, or eat carbs one time less than usual. It's easy, and with time you could challenge yourself more, eventually eating as healthy as you've always dreamed of. For me, thats gonna be a long process.
+ Its all about balance. I have cheat meals pretty much every day, but with that I try to stay active and make sure I also eat super healthy for the rest of my meals. If I fully cut out foods that aren't the healthiest I know that I eventually will break, and go on a binging spree eating anything that's in front of me. If I let myself have waffles for breakfast, I know I can handle the rest of the day without eating any more sweets or carbs. Once again I love food, and I think food should be enjoyed, and I am not down to eat rice and chicken every day. I love trying new places and trying new foods.
Once again it's all about balance, if you eat a lot, make sure you stay active and get a workout in, the next day try to eat healthier or less.
+You will have bad days and that's fine, girls.. we have em once a month for sure! So its ok to sometimes let yourself have that ice cream jar. Maybe just share it with someone ;) But don't beat yourself up over it, remind yourself that tomorrow you won't go on a sugar binge because once again, balance.
+Learn to love yourself now, the way you are. I never agreed with america being ok with obesity or unhealthy lifestyles, I think everyone should strive to be healthy. But I do know hands on that if you don't love yourself at the moment, you won't truly love yourself at 10 pounds less, or a few muscles stronger. Because loving yourself means accepting that you are Gods beautiful creation made in His image, no matter what. You learn to love yourself, you learn the importance of taking care of your body and will have the desire to do so. Im still working on this one.
Ok, so we went through all the things you can do to prepare yourself and make the journey easier, but here's what I've been loving in the physical aspect of it all.
+Intermittent fasting:
A lot of people get scared when I first introduce them to this "lifestyle" but it's really nothing intimidating. And no, unless you are an exception and have a special metabolism, it doesn't damage your stomach. I've been doing it for about 5 months and I don't wanna go back.
So basically what I do is I eat for 8 hours in a day and fast (don't eat) for 16. No, I don't eat the whole 8 hours, I have two-three filling meals within 8 hours. I start eating at noon, and don't eat after 7. So I pretty much just skip breakfast. And it works for me because I'm never hungry in the mornings and if I eat late at night I feel sick in the morning. I also don't do it during the weekends to give myself a little break, I just eat whenever, because weekends are for going out and eating late.
For some people it'll take getting used to because you will feel hungry at first, but after a week or so you won't even notice.
And an even better thing to do is to get a workout in right before your first meal. Its fat burning dreams!
Once again, I'm not an expert so i'll share some videos and articles about it, but basically its great for weight loss, and building up your immune system.
To make it as simple as possible when you go into fasting mode your body first uses the food you ate and burns it for energy, but once it's used all that up, it turns to your fat cells for help, and this pretty much just happens while you're sleeping, a time when you don't even need energy. So, you burn fat while sleeping, who doesn't want that?
Anyways if you're interested here are some informational vids that got me into it.
+Intuitive eating:
This is simple, and goes along with listening to your body. I don't always follow through with this but I try. So a lot of people turn to calorie counting, or micro and macro tracking, and i've tried that, but unless I wanted to be in competitions or something this is just too much work and too complicated for me. So intuitive eating really interested me because it's super easy. All you do is eat when you're hungry and don't eat when you're not. Stop eating if you're full, keep eating if you're not. Pretty much don't stuff yourself. Super easy, super effective.
+ Calorie in Vs. Calorie out:
the equation to not gaining weight or even losing weight. Just burn more calories than you eat.
+Hiit:
has changed my view of cardio, its short for High intensity interval training.
So why I love hiit is because its pretty much made for quick fat burning. This one is a bit hard to explain but you pretty much do 20 minutes or more of slow, fast, slow, fast cardio.
So lets say i'm on a treadmill.. I pick a steady speed like 3.. so I fast walk at speed three for a minute thirty and after the minute passes I do an outburst of cardio and sprint as fast as I can for 30 seconds... I do this constantly for twenty minutes. (If it doesn't make sense the videos I linked do a way better job.)
Personally, I like to do 10 min of hiit on each machine at the gym (stairmaster, treadmill, elliptical, bike) and the best part is you can also do it outside, or at home if you have a staircase ;) and anywhere you please, the possibilities are endless.
Why I love hiit: you sweat twice as much aka burn way more fat than regular cardio, and it takes half the time, plus the workout flies by!
Another amazing benefit is when you do regular cardio you're not only burning fat but you're also burning muscle, with hiit you burn fat by replacing that fat with muscle, and muscle is essential for burning even more fat. ;)
This is essential for people who are trying to gain muscle mass, those people need to stay away from regular cardio and really give HIIT a chance.
Anyways, just check these out and then try it out for yourself.
+Weight training:
its simple, you just lift weights. Some people think lifting weights will get them bulky but it won't, unless you're eating crazy amounts of food. The truth is, muscle pretty much burns fat, and if you do weight training, even when you're done and you're driving home your muscles are still working, burning that fat. I love weight training because I love challenging myself, I love trying out new workouts and I love pushing myself to lift heavier than I did before.
I could go on and on about everything I've been learning lately about the gym, about fat loss, about healthy living. But once again i'm no expert, I learn from trial and error and I learn from ordinary people who got results. Theres so much information on youtube and all over the web. And over the year I became passionate about learning even more about the body, how it works, and what keeps mine healthy. I just wanted to share the main things I practice in reaching my goal of a healthy body and a healthy lifestyle.
I learn the most from some of the youtube channels I follow,
Some are vlogs, some are informational, and all are super informative.
Once again, everyone's different, these things might not work for you as they do for me, but you'll never get anywhere If you don't try new things.
So if you're interested (btw i follow mostly girls, cause im a girl..)
But go check out the
Gymshark channel its super inspirational (theres guys there too)
with that:
Nikki Blackketter
Jazmine Garcia
+++Abby Pollock (she focuses on solely information, and I learned the most from her channel )
Robin Gallant
Also check out Buff bunny
Last but not least have fun, don't let fitness or healthy eating be something you dread, find ways that You enjoy and that work for You. and remember "no matter how slow you go you're still lapping everybody on the couch."
11/01/2016
Just life things
People have asked me why I don't blog anymore, and honestly I don't have a specific reason. Maybe its lack of inspiration, the struggle to put my thoughts together, laziness?
But it's fall and it's the perfect time to be inspired so I have decided to write..something, anything, and just go with it.
Ill write what comes to mind, and share it with those who might care. No revisions, just a rough draft of my thoughts.
So beware.
To begin, I want to say that my life couldn't be better, I'm so blessed and so thankful. I have everything I could ever need and so much more. I've had so many amazing opportunities and growths, Ive made so many memories and truly have nothing to complain about.
But life Isn't always flowers and rainbows and I haven't always seen things this way, its taken a lot to get to this place, and day by day I'm still getting there.
Nowadays, people look at our snapchats, instagrams, facebooks and decide they know us. They decide how happy we are and how amazing our life is based on just pictures and videos.
But really, we all forget that people only show the best parts of their lives on social media. No one wants to see the other parts of life that aren't so perfect; when we are sad, stressed, or doing nothing.
I guess we forget that no ones is perfect, and just because a picture may be perfect, the moment might not be. We all have imperfect moments, bad days. We all go through things, its life.
I've had days filled with sunshine and days filled with pouring rain. And each season in my life has gotten me to where I am today.
I guess I just want to share those bad days with you guys, because everyone should know that we all have them and they aren't alone.
-I guess I'll start off with what I struggled with most: comparison, no sense of direction, the feeling that my life is going nowhere.
There's so many expectations; get married, go to college, get a well paying career, have an amazing home with perfect furniture, have perfect clothes, perfect hair, perfect relationships.
Social media just got to me, and for a moment in my life it brainwashed me into feeling like I had to live up to those standards, and I just couldn't keep up.
It took a breakdown for me to realize that life shouldn't be that way. I've learned to take life day by day, seeking opportunities and taking them, trusting God. I've learned to be content with who I am and what I've made of my life. I reminded myself that God expects us to be thankful no matter what we have and where we are in life.
I stopped looking at other people's lives with want and jealousy but with happiness for them, and realization that everyone is different, everyone has their own story, and that's what makes life amazing. I remember that life isn't about materialistic things, and it makes everything so much easier.
-Alongside that, I've had days where I felt like I was letting everyone down, and with that I felt I was mostly letting God down.
Getting married and moving away comes with lots of changes, and with that it's easy to make mistakes, it's easy to lose sight of yourself, and miss what you used to have.
But moving out of a small town into a big one, meeting new people who are different than what you're used to, is obviously going to change you in a way or another.
Theres the need to fit in, a need to be liked, and a desire to find your place.
As difficult enough as it is, with that, there's the stress of standing your ground in your beliefs and who you are.
And with every change or mistake that I made people started to look at me differently, and judge every move I made.
I mean it's whatever, we all do it, I catch myself all the time.
But I realized that we should just give each other some slack and instead of judging, or bashing on each other, we should be there for each other and lift each other up. There's always a reason behind people's actions, and maybe sometimes all people need is a nice gesture, or reminder that they are not alone.
It's hard to please everyone, make everyone happy. But as long as we focus on growing, learning from our mistakes, and moving forward, it shouldn't matter what people say, as long as you're trying your best to improve your relationship with the Lord.
But with all this being said, and I know I'll be contradicting myself, I also learned be open to criticism. At least from those I trust.
Because we don't always see the whole picture. So it's our job not to take people's words so negatively and use them to evaluate our lives and see what positive changes we need to make.
I learned it the hard way, because I do not take criticism well, but in the end it opened my eyes and gave me the desire to be better for myself and for the Lord.
-Another thing I've struggled with, is with so much change, came the need to fill the empty holes in my life.
I found myself struggling to keep up with old relationships, struggling to contact those I love or used to be close with, I would be scared they forgot about me or that things would be different. I got the idea that no one cares anymore.
But I had to learn to move on, keep those people in my heart and focus on the now. I wouldn't change who I was and the way I grew up for anything. But I had to learn that things won't be like that anymore. Everyone changes, everyone grows up, and everyone moves on.
I guess all my struggles derive from the big changes in my life. But I learned that I am where I need to be, and people come and go, but they all make an impact and I'm thankful for all of them.
- I guess that's all that came to my mind for now, and like you probably noticed, It's not always coffee dates, traveling, hiking, and fun for me.
There's inner struggles, outer struggles, adjustments, and lots of work.
But thats what Im thankful for most, I know that no matter what I go through, no matter how many rainy storms pass my life, i'm always left with rainbows. Sometimes I look at my life and all I could do is smile, because all the good things in my life surpass the bad.
Through all the hard times we only grow into something better. Flowers don't just grow overnight, they take time. So that's what I'm doing... day by day I fall, but I always get back up.
So that's where I am in life, growing, exploring, changing. I might not be who I was, but that's okay, because people aren't meant to stay in one place. Sometimes we have to be born out of the dirt, rained on by many storms until we could be beautiful. It's a long process, and it might be a never ending one, but each moment of it is so amazing.
I also hope we can all remember that life's best moments are not in the pictures we take. The best moments are when the phone and camera is not there. The sincere smiles, laughs, intimate moments. The moments when you embrace your surroundings, and really take in the view. The sunsets you don't post because you're so blown away with them, the coffee dates you don't post because you're too busy talking. I'm trying to appreciate that. I envy those people who aren't so attached to their phones, and I'm trying to get there.
So there we go.. a mini, shortened, update on my life right now.
It really is amazing,
and I hope you realize that even if it might not always feel like it,
yours probably is too.
So thanks for reading, I hope I can start posting a lot more and about way more interesting things, so give me a chance and you might learn something new.
Love, Vika Kay <3
(shoutout to my amazing husband who sticks with me through it all, who supports me and loves me, and makes my life a never ending adventure )
7/18/2016
Genuinely happy
Im learning to be content, with myself, my life ,and everything that I have. Ive always wanted more, better, and thats ok sometimes, but came the point where I had to learn to be thankful and satisfied. I dont live in my dream home or apartment, but at least I have a place to live. I dont have my dream body, but at least im healthy, alive, and someone loves me for who I am. I have more clothes than I need. I dont make lots of money or have an amazing proffesion, but I love my temporary job. I always have enough to have food on the table, and go out with friends.
This life teaches us to be needy, thirsty for more, for better. But I want to be thirsty for Christ, thirsty to be a better person, and things of higher importance.
We focus so much on impressing others, we care so much of peoples opinion. But we forget to care about what matters to God. Ive drowned myself in a continuous worry that someone might judge my place in life, look down on me. But Ive learned that theres better things to worry about, more important things like loving others, spreading joy, lending a hand, being friendly, serving, and genuinely doing thise things, not to impress others. We focus so much on whats temporary; making lots of money, having nice things, how many followers we have on instagram, how many likes we have, how popular we are, how hot we are. And I got to the point where I was addicted to it.
But now I want to focus on the big picture; that theres better, more intense and meaningful things in store for us. All else will fade away and then we will be left with nothing.
So i want to be careless, but careful, I want to think of higher things. Soak up life; live for relationships, experiences, journeys, sunsets, moments. Not for things and momentary pleasures. I want to be genuinely happy.
And then, if we are content with what we have, happy, we can share that with others, and God will give back and provide with more.
So I just want to say that no matter what, im happy with where im at. Im so blessed and thankful. I no longer want to care about lowly things. Things that are temporary are a waste of sweet precious time that you could be using to TRULY live and enjoy life.
People have been learning to live for themselves nowadays, for their own pleasure, gain, and attention. But I know someone who can fill all those voids.
So im learning to be content and happy with where im at, and to share that happiness with others.
6/15/2016
For the love of junk
Andrey and his friends introduced me to a hike we call Morrison.(http://alltrails.com/trail/us/colorado/mt-morrison-direct-east-face)
Now if I could describe this hike in any way, I'd say its like a 14er without the elevation. Morrison is if im not wrong about a 3 mile hike with a constant, ongoing, super steep incline. Me and andrey went once or twice last year..but I started hiking it by myself about two weeks ago. Its not an easy trail but my first time going up, I killed it! Slayyedd it. With fear of snakes being my drive I made it to the very top in 45 minutes. Everyone I told was pretty impressed because I guess thats a pretty good time. Now, the trail pretty much consists of two parts... the first part is the worst.. its the steepest and hardest on your body, the second part consists of mild rock climbing and scrambling up boulders. I did it three days in a row that week, and each time it took longer because my body was exhausted, but it did feel easier on my heart and lungs.
So here's where im going with this... a week and a half later I decide to go back up...and this time I learned a valuble lesson.
The first time I did Morrison I was on this streak of being very physically active and eating super clean... but last week, until this day, I completey destroyed everything. I ate junk all week; chips, desert, pizza, ice cream..
And I was a lot lazier then usual. Because of this (and my hurt ankle) I finished morrison (the whole thing) 15 minutes later than my fastest time, and with a sick feeling the whole way up.
I sufferred up that thing so much that I made myself a goal that I would never treat my body like that again. I plan on staying as active as I can and eating as clean as I can all week. So that next week when I do morrison again, I could possibly beat my time or at least be close to it. Most of all though, so that I could hike without feeling sick.
With all this being said..I truly realized that what goes in, does come out. I put junk in my body, I felt like terrible and got terrible results. When I took care of my body, I got results I was happy with and felt good about myself. I realized how truly important it is to stay away from unhealthy foods and to stick to the healthy eating lifestyle. So I hope I could get to the point where I dont fall into this junk food trap again.
Another reminder I took to myself from this, was that this totally applies to our spiritual health as well. If we watch junk, listen to junk, think about pointless things..then it will all come out and show on the outside. You will never progress in who you are, you will only slow down. What you put inside your spirutual life will affect your attitude, your personality, and your vibe. The more good you fill your mind with, and the more Christ you fill your heart with, the more you will show: joy, love, peace and other amazing qualities. You will get to where you want to spiritually and from there get even better. A healthy spiritual lifestyle wont make you feel sick as you walk on this trail of life.(how deep)
This makes me so thankful that God provides us with so many chances.
As much as we fall, consume junk, as often as we give up, or get stuck, life goes on and each new day we have the chance to change. That means you dont have to spend it being stuck in one place, you can try again, you can push harder, you can improve. So dont live your life thinking this is all you've got, this is all you're capable of. We all fall, and if I can get out of my junk food rut and pursue my goals then I can get out of my spiritually low rut. So can you! We all need to take every day to advantage and just try again from a clean slate.
I think we all fall, or get stuck in a rut once in a while to truly realize how much better life is when we are out of it. Maybe I think to much, but im glad I could take something for myself in random situations. Most of all I encourage all Colorado residents to hike Morrison at least once this summer. Because look how many lessons it taught me in just an hour. If you dont live in Co sorry. Jk... just going outside and enjoying nature teaches you so much in itself, you can learn from anything.
Now if I could describe this hike in any way, I'd say its like a 14er without the elevation. Morrison is if im not wrong about a 3 mile hike with a constant, ongoing, super steep incline. Me and andrey went once or twice last year..but I started hiking it by myself about two weeks ago. Its not an easy trail but my first time going up, I killed it! Slayyedd it. With fear of snakes being my drive I made it to the very top in 45 minutes. Everyone I told was pretty impressed because I guess thats a pretty good time. Now, the trail pretty much consists of two parts... the first part is the worst.. its the steepest and hardest on your body, the second part consists of mild rock climbing and scrambling up boulders. I did it three days in a row that week, and each time it took longer because my body was exhausted, but it did feel easier on my heart and lungs.
So here's where im going with this... a week and a half later I decide to go back up...and this time I learned a valuble lesson.
The first time I did Morrison I was on this streak of being very physically active and eating super clean... but last week, until this day, I completey destroyed everything. I ate junk all week; chips, desert, pizza, ice cream..
And I was a lot lazier then usual. Because of this (and my hurt ankle) I finished morrison (the whole thing) 15 minutes later than my fastest time, and with a sick feeling the whole way up.
I sufferred up that thing so much that I made myself a goal that I would never treat my body like that again. I plan on staying as active as I can and eating as clean as I can all week. So that next week when I do morrison again, I could possibly beat my time or at least be close to it. Most of all though, so that I could hike without feeling sick.
With all this being said..I truly realized that what goes in, does come out. I put junk in my body, I felt like terrible and got terrible results. When I took care of my body, I got results I was happy with and felt good about myself. I realized how truly important it is to stay away from unhealthy foods and to stick to the healthy eating lifestyle. So I hope I could get to the point where I dont fall into this junk food trap again.
Another reminder I took to myself from this, was that this totally applies to our spiritual health as well. If we watch junk, listen to junk, think about pointless things..then it will all come out and show on the outside. You will never progress in who you are, you will only slow down. What you put inside your spirutual life will affect your attitude, your personality, and your vibe. The more good you fill your mind with, and the more Christ you fill your heart with, the more you will show: joy, love, peace and other amazing qualities. You will get to where you want to spiritually and from there get even better. A healthy spiritual lifestyle wont make you feel sick as you walk on this trail of life.(how deep)
This makes me so thankful that God provides us with so many chances.
As much as we fall, consume junk, as often as we give up, or get stuck, life goes on and each new day we have the chance to change. That means you dont have to spend it being stuck in one place, you can try again, you can push harder, you can improve. So dont live your life thinking this is all you've got, this is all you're capable of. We all fall, and if I can get out of my junk food rut and pursue my goals then I can get out of my spiritually low rut. So can you! We all need to take every day to advantage and just try again from a clean slate.
I think we all fall, or get stuck in a rut once in a while to truly realize how much better life is when we are out of it. Maybe I think to much, but im glad I could take something for myself in random situations. Most of all I encourage all Colorado residents to hike Morrison at least once this summer. Because look how many lessons it taught me in just an hour. If you dont live in Co sorry. Jk... just going outside and enjoying nature teaches you so much in itself, you can learn from anything.
5/09/2016
Still married
It hasn't even hit me that I'm married and it's already been a whole year since I said I do to my favorite person in the whole world. It seems like just yesterday I was getting ready to walk down the aisle, but here we are a year later having already made so much memories and fallen in love so much more. Its been a journey that I wouldn't replace with anything. There were ups and Downs but we have grown so much as people, as husband's and wife's, and so much closer that life right now just seems perfect. God seriously sent me the perfect man; one who loves me, spoils me, tries for me and always makes me feel like a princess. We have accomplished so much together already that the future just seems even brighter. I'm so excited for what's ahead and I'm so excited to face it with him; all the challenges and all the good times. We work so well as a team, we are insepperable, and I'm sure that bond will get that much stronger down the line. I have truly seen Gods hand in our lives and His love through Andrey. A year of Marriage is already longer than some have lived together, and it wasn't always easy, but it's always always been worth it. I never thought I could be so loved or love so much. My life is truly an adventure and a fairy tale and I'm so thankful and so blessed beyond belief. I can truly say I don't deserve such an amazing husband, but I sure am so glad to have him. ;)
Here's a glimpse of our year in no particular order.
Here's a glimpse of our year in no particular order.
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